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Is it Meant to be or Not to be?

More often than not, we have all been asked this question, “Do you believe in destiny?“. Yes, destiny is such a great concept. I wish it were true. I hope it’s true. But I’m just not so sure it is.

 Does the walker choose the path, or the path the walker? (Garth Nix, Sabriel)

If destiny exists, then why make an effort? What’s done is done. There is nothing you can do to change the inexorable progression of fate, so why try? People might say: “I’m just born under a bad star/planet. Life has been very unkind to me.” In that sense, I think blind belief in destiny is very dangerous.

Moreover, if you think of yourself as just a mote of dust getting pushed and pulled endlessly by unforeseen forces you’re not going to be too happy.  How much ever we deny it, all of us feel this need to be in control. This locus of control essentially makes you more or less likely to be a go getter and to strive to better yourself. If you have a belief in fate, that certain things are pre-written, then of course this takes away the same responsibility that you might previously have felt and sense of possibility along with it.

The flip side of the coin is it’s nice to think that no matter how badly you screw up today, destiny might have something great in store for you tomorrow. Destiny can serve as a security blanket to help deal with things that we don’t want to understand.

But just simply relying on tomorrow to bring better tidings without any effort will not change anything. Even destiny might not help you if you don’t help yourself. I strongly believe in free will but I have to admit that I do resort to using destiny as a safety net at times. Guilty as charged! 😀

I think the only thing that matters is whether we give it our best shot, irrespective of what fate has in store or not.

After all, going down without a fight is the worst form defeat ever! So stay strong and march on..

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4 thoughts on “Is it Meant to be or Not to be?”

  1. The Universe is determined as well as random: we should forget about both destiny and free will and just get on with things, and by doing so, contribute to the destiny and free will in the random/determined universe. The beauty of living in the Paradox.

  2. Good exercise – keep exploring – no one can give or coach “your” answer to this question 🙂
    Couple of quotes in this subject I found useful to ponder in this context:
    “Only siths deal in absolutes” – Obi-wan to his Padwan.

    “You live life in two ways. One as everything is a miracle. And another as though nothing is miracle” – yes, it is Einstein.

    On a closing remark, free will? Really? What happens AFTER you choose the red pill?

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